Dating and confidence
You learned this by guessing.
Nobody teaches us how to approach someone, how to ask for what we want, or what to do with a no. So we guess, and take every miss personally. Confidence can be learned. It starts with knowing what you want, and saying it kindly.
Start here ยท Private sessions
Dating, one to one
Online sessions for men and for women who want to date with more ease, and more honesty.
Sessions ยท Online, one to one
For men
Most men learned to date by guessing. We work on approaching with ease, saying what you want, and hearing a no without taking it personally.
Lasting longer is taught in the course.
Sessions for men โ
Sessions ยท Online, one to one
For women
For single women who want to date with more ease: knowing what you want, saying it kindly, and staying yourself when you like someone.
Sessions for women โ
Other ways in
Under the Covers
Free. Once a month, five things around one theme: a film, a book, an article, an idea from my sessions and a song.
A question first
Not sure which is right for you? Ask before you book.
Read
- 8 Reasons Men Struggle in Bed (and How to Fix It)
- Fear of Intimacy: Why You Pull Away When You Want Connection
- Nice Guys, Speak Up: Asking for What You Want
- 3 Online Dating Tips to Keep You Grounded
- Want to Meet Someone? Look Up from Your Phone
- How to Be a Good Lover: Yes, You Can Learn
- To Flirt or to Fuck?
Listen
Got HER Back, Ep 132
What Men Really Bring to an Intimacy Coach. October 2026. Listen (opens in a new tab)
Kiss & Tell Magazine
Using Seduction as One of Your Tools for Intimacy. May 2025. Watch (opens in a new tab)
Shameless Sex, 403
Overcoming Penis Size and Performance Shame in the Bedroom. 2023. Listen (opens in a new tab)
Other topics
Lasting longer
Desire
Pleasure
Couples
