Pleasure
Sex feels like one more thing to get right.
When sex turns into a performance, you leave your body and start keeping score. Pleasure asks for the opposite: slower, curious, present. There is nothing to get right. There is what feels good, and time to find it.
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Under the Covers
Once a month, five things around one theme: a film, a book, an article, an idea from my sessions and a song.
Monthly. Leave whenever you like.
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Under the Covers
Other ways in
The Sex Class
Twelve modules, from mindset and being present in your body to touch, fantasy and communication.
For women
To slow down and find what feels good to you. Private sessions, online.
For couples
To take the pressure off, together. Private sessions, online.
For men
To get out of your head and back into your body. Private sessions, online.
Read
- The Orgasm Trap: When Chasing Climax Gets in the Way
- Why Can’t I Orgasm? My Article for xxTALK
- Let’s Rebrand Foreplay
- Body Acceptance: Feeling More at Home in Your Body
- How the Word ‘Should’ Is Killing Your Sex Life
- How to Be a Good Lover: Yes, You Can Learn
- How to Talk Dirty When You Feel Awkward About It
Listen
Shameless Sex, 351
Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure. 2023. Listen (opens in a new tab)
Pressing Desires, 13
Sex & Mindfulness. 2024. Listen (opens in a new tab)
WandHER Podcast, Ep 39
Stop Comparing & Stay Curious. 2024. Listen (opens in a new tab)
Shameless Sex, 199
All About Orgasms. 2021. Listen (opens in a new tab)
Other topics
Lasting longer
Dating and confidence
Desire
Couples
