Paris Sex Club Coaching: Before and After Your Visit

This post is from November 2019. I no longer offer the Paris "Before and After" sessions. If you and your partner want help talking through boundaries and desire, here's how I work with couples now.

Meet me in Paris with your lover, and I will help you two have one of the most memorable erotic experiences of your life.

Adults enjoying "adult" sexy time with other like-minded individuals.

San Francisco, and most of the US, is sorely lacking in this type of entertainment. But Paris? Ooh la la.

The City of Lights, love, and passion is undeniably sexy and laissez-faire. Parisians have sex because they want to, because it's fun. Moral hang-ups, like not having sex on the first date, are for "les Américains."

In short, it's the perfect vibe for exploring sex. Best of all, what happens in Paris stays in Paris, because we all have more fun away from home.

Read more about sex clubs here.

What I love about sex clubs is the freedom to explore anything you want.

You'll finally bring to life all those fantasies you've only explored inside your head. Fantasies like:

• Watching someone give a blow job. Check.
• Touching, licking, and kissing lots of luscious-looking skin. Check.
• Fucking in public while surrounded by others doing the same. Check.
• Meeting another person to play with? Hey, don't knock it till you try it, right?

Of course, loving the idea of a sex club and actually going to one are two different things. I've found many people don't explore sex clubs for a few different reasons.

• One, they're not sure how to find one, or what to expect when they get there.
• Two, they worry it'll be an all-out orgy, and if they're not into that, they'll be unable to say no.
• Three, they're not sure how to prepare themselves ahead of time, so they can have fun instead of cowering in a corner, hoping no one approaches them.

I get it. It's intimidating to prep for a night of fun when you're not sure what you're getting into.

That's why I decided to help couples before and after their adventures at the sex club.

My sessions were designed to help you undress, literally and metaphorically, while staying connected to each other throughout the night. Even more important: how to maintain that connection after your night of passion, when you may be struggling with new feelings and emotions.

I offered these "Before and After" sessions in Paris, France. Paris was the perfect place to launch this series because there are so many options for sex clubs.

Let me assure you that sex clubs are not about forcing you beyond your boundaries. However, you need to know what those boundaries are before you step into a club. In the "Before" sessions, we worked on setting clear boundaries and expectations for both of you.

In the "After" sessions, I helped couples come back together after the big night, build on the connection they created, and clear up any confusion or mixed feelings.

But this isn't just about sex. It's about trusting each other on a deeper and more intimate level. Because that's what keeps couples together, long after they come down from the high of an orgasm.

How the sessions flowed

When you arrived in Paris with your sweetie, you'd get settled in a romantic spot (I had great hotel suggestions) and spend a few days floating around the city, adjusting to the time change and sharing sultry glances as you anticipated what lay ahead.

The day before the club, we met for a private, 3-hour "Before" session: playful erotic exercises designed to help you communicate your desires and boundaries, set intentions, and build a strong connection before heading out. Then I'd help you choose the club that best fit your desires.

The next day, we met for a 2-hour "After" session to talk about what worked, what was good, fun and sexy, and how each new experience felt. We'd also untangle any confusion or misunderstandings from the night and look at how to build on what you discovered.