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After The Honeymoon Phase dating relationships Feb 22, 2023

Most of us have listened to stories from friends or experienced the typical arch of a sexual relationship. You start out with a burning lust and desire for the other person; it feels so good to be with them and everything they do turns you on. The sex is frequent and fulfilling. Your needs feel...

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Do we need sex therapy? Find out in 7 Easy Questions relationship relationships Jan 12, 2022
Find out in 7 easy questions if you and your partner need to book an appointment with sex therapist.

It's difficult to know when it's become time to see an expert for advice in your relationship. Romantic relationships naturally go through up and downs and it's just plain hard to stay...

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How the Word “Should” is Killing Your Sex Life better sex relationship relationships sex Aug 21, 2015

You should be like this. You should do that. If you want a healthy sexy life you should try this with your partner. There are “should’s” any direction you turn these days. People, other people, who you have not met, are telling you how you should act. In graduate school, I heard...

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Sexless Relationship? How Did We Get Here? Living Like Roommates. couple relationships Dec 16, 2014

Sexless Relationship? How Did We Get Here? Living Like Roommates.

The term “sexless marriage” gets a lot of attention, but often, relationships are “touchless” long before they get labeled as sexless.

I was watching a movie, Le Week-End, the other day. It is about a...

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Let's Rebrand Foreplay relationships sex Oct 02, 2014

Let’s do it! Right here, right now, let’s forever change what we refer to as “foreplay” to something else. Let re-brand foreplay to more accurately represent the sex acts for what they are. First off, it’s all play. Sex is, at its finest, adult play. It is how us...

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To Flirt Or To Fuck? dating relationships Aug 27, 2014

When I was asked to present at the event, Master the F Word: Flirting, my first thought was “What do I do when I flirt with someone?” The answer was simple: I imagine myself fucking them. From this idea, I ran an experiential with the group, giving participants instructions to talk to...

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