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Is there anything more complex than relationship dynamics?
Very little! Relationships aren't perfect - I think we can all attest to that! Sometimes things can get messy, we change, and we grow. The best case scenario is that we understand the relationship dynamic we have and work together to...
“I can live for two months on a good compliment.” – Mark Twain
Compliments: The Power of Compliments and how to give them
Complimenting someone else is one of my favorite things to do. If I see something I like about a person, I just say it right then and there. Even the people...
Most of us have listened to stories from friends or experienced the typical arch of a sexual relationship. You start out with a burning lust and desire for the other person; it feels so good to be with them and everything they do turns you on. The sex is frequent and fulfilling. Your needs feel...
It’s October and the fall vibes have commenced. The smell of pumpkin spice wafts through the air as leaves drift from the trees and your favorite hot drink warms your hands.
You check your text messages as it’s been a week since you’ve heard from your summer...
I hear it quite a bit in my practice, “He is really nice, I like talking to him, but I don’t want to fuck him.” How do you find the balance between being a nice person, and being a fuckable person; how do you cross the bridge from being someone women are not interested in...
Meet me in Paris with your lover and I will help you two have one of the most memorable erotic experience of your life.
Adults enjoying “adult” sexy time with other like-minded individuals.
San Francisco -- and most of the US -- is sorely lacking in this type...
Going to a sex club for the first time can be exciting, as well as nerve-wracking. Seeing people live (and not on-screen) delighting in the pleasures of the flesh can be hard to fully prepare for. When I first started exploring the sex club/swinging world years ago, I definitely remember feeling...
BY SUGAR
August 5th, 2010
The folks who show up in my office often feel like they are somehow unfit for love. They don't fit the physical mold of what society has deemed presentable, lovable, worthy of love.
Yet, somewhere inside them lives the part that desperately wants there to be a...
I’ve been thinking a lot about sex clubs lately.
You know, adults enjoying “adult” time with other like-minded individuals.
Unfortunately, San Francisco -- and most of the US -- is sorely lacking in this type of entertainment…but Paris? Ooh la la!
The City of Lights,...
In my practice, I talk often with clients on the topic of dating - especially online dating. I’ve had the pleasure to see so many new relationships bud and people fall madly in love. I have also seen dating go all wrong. Needless to say, we never know when our person will show up, but...
