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This post is from November 2019. I no longer offer the Paris "Before and After" sessions. If you and your partner want help talking through boundaries and desire, here's how I work with couples now.
Meet me in Paris with your lover, and I will help you two have one of the most memorable erotic expe...
This post is from November 2019. The Conscious Dating Group ran in early 2020 and is no longer offered. If dating has you stuck, I work one-on-one with women and men.
Join the Conscious Dating Group for 6 weeks and change your relationship with dating.
This group was for you if:
- you're dating ...
Going to a sex club for the first time can be exciting as well as nerve-wracking. Seeing people live (and not on-screen) delighting in the pleasures of the flesh can be hard to fully prepare for.
When I first started exploring the sex club and swinging world years ago, I definitely remember feeling...
Search for help with finishing too soon and you'll find pills, sprays, creams, exercises, and a lot of confident advice from people who have never sat with a man going through it.
These are the questions I hear most often, answered as honestly as I can. I'm a sex coach, not a doctor. Where a questi...
It's happened to all of us at some point.
Day in, day out, you're living a nice, predictable life with all your ducks in a row. Then life throws you a curveball that changes everything, including your sex life.
In 2017, I fell off a horse and broke my leg. (Here are all the juicy, excruciating det...
When I hit the ground, I thought, "No, this is not happening."
In my years of riding, I have fallen off more horses than I can count.
I've been rolled on, stepped on, thrown into fences and trees, you name it.
Almost every situation you can imagine going wrong in horse riding, I have been through...
The people who come to me often feel somehow unfit for love. Their bodies don't match what we've been told is attractive, and somewhere along the way they decided love was for other people.
Yet somewhere inside them is a part that badly wants a different answer.
That's why I keep coming back to De...
There's one question I want answered in the first session with every new client:
"What makes you difficult to be in a relationship with?"
It tells me a lot about how this person's relationships have been unfolding, and where we need to start.
How self-reflective are you?
This question gives me a...
For years, I got calls from men all over the world who felt doomed to finish too soon forever. Most had tried everything they could find: sprays, numbing creams, herbal remedies. None of it had given them what they wanted.
I had spent years developing a way of working with this in my sessions, and ...
These days, so much attention goes to porn videos. But have you thought about erotic graphic novels?
My guess is no, because many folks haven't.
What I love about this kind of erotica is that you enjoy the turn-on with your eyes in a very different way than with a video. You're still looking at bo...
This article has been updated and combined into a newer post.
Read the updated version: Paris Sex Club Coaching: Before and After Your Visit
"Sorrow, however, turns out to be not a state but a process."
~ C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed"You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it."
~ Elisabeth KĆ¼bler-Ross and David Kessler, On Grief and Grieving
The book that found me
The words in Perfect Love, ...
