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Premature Ejaculation: Your Questions Answered

Causes, timelines, kegels, medication, Viagra, numbing sprays and more: a sex coach’s straight answers to the PE questions men ask most.

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8 Reasons Men Struggle in Bed (and How to Fix It)

Anxiety, overstimulation, passivity, resentment: a sex coach on why men struggle in bed, and what helps them feel present and confident again.

If you love them and the want has faded

How to Bring Back Desire in a Long-Term Relationship

Lost desire for a partner you still love? How I’d work with it: honest talk, sharing what really turns you on, and one small experiment to start.

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3 Common Relationship Dynamics (and How to Change Them) communication couples relationships Aug 02, 2024
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When Sex Feels Like a Test: The Emotional Side of PE and ED couples men's sexual health premature ejaculation relationships Jul 02, 2024
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How to Help Your Partner Open Up: 7 Gentle Ways to Start communication couples intimacy relationships May 06, 2024
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Fear of Intimacy: Why You Pull Away When You Want Connection communication intimacy relationships Oct 25, 2023

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