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After a decade plus of working with couples, I've found that financial intimacy often remains a taboo topic, lurking in the shadows of their relationships. Consider a couple I recently worked with who had been together for six years. Despite sharing a life together—bed, lease, friends, and even holi...

List of my latest Podcasts' interviews:

Using Seduction as One of Your Tools for Intimacy

Kiss & Tell Magazine - May 2025

Fantasy Files: Embracing Fantasy Talk in Your Relationship

Kiss & Tell Magazine - March 2025

Talk Dirty to Me: How to Unleash your Sexual Fantasies in the Bedroom" fea...

Strong relationships thrive on understanding, communication, and self-awareness. Yet, maintaining intimacy—both emotional and physical—requires effort and intentionality. This is where an online sex class can be a game-changer for couples. By providing a safe, structured space to explore sexuality, ...

In recent weeks, I’ve found myself reflecting on the famous Fable of The Porcupine:

It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold. The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together to keep warm. This way they covered and protected themselves; but the quills ...

Intimacy as a Garden: Nurturing Love with Four Essential Phrases

When it comes to intimacy between lovers, picture it as a flourishing garden. Like a garden, intimacy evolves through seasons, requiring care and attention to thrive. Sometimes, certain flowers and fruits bloom with ease, while other ...

Dirty talk can be a thrilling way to spice up your sex life, but it often feels intimidating at first.

Let’s break it down into simple steps to help you feel more comfortable and confident.

Get Comfortable with Unfamiliar Words:

The first step is to get cozy with the words themselves.

Often, ...

Is there anything more complex than relationship dynamics?

Very little! Relationships aren't perfect - I think we can all attest to that! Sometimes things can get messy, we change, and we grow. The best case scenario is that we understand the relationship dynamic we have and work together to build...

We believe that the best relationships are built on understanding, communication, and, most importantly, self-awareness. To help you on your journey toward deeper intimacy and sexual well-being, we've put together a list of books that dive into the essential aspects of sexuality, intimacy, and self-...

Here’s 1 Sex Lesson Everyone Could Stand To Learn From 'Love Is Blind'
On Netflix's reality show "Love Is Blind," Johnny and Amy are at odds over birth control methods. Here's what we can learn from their conversation.

 What Sex Therapists Tell People Who've Never Had An Orgasm
Here's some ex...

How many times have you heard of a relationship fizzling out for seemingly no reason? Or hear someone say, "it just wasn't right" without having any idea what "it" was?

Sometimes, when a relationship struggles, it's because one or both people's relationship needs aren't being fulfilled. If you don'...

What happens for a man he can't perform in the bedroom?

Here is a Q&A with Keeley about male performance struggles. 

How deeply do male performance issues affect men?

How do they not impact men? For the last 15 years, I’ve seen first hand how deeply male performance issues impact. While these str...

One of the most common questions therapists hear today is, “Am I a sex addict?” While some who ask this question are grappling with societal judgments about their healthy, albeit high, sex drive, for others, it may point to a deeper problem. Sexual addiction is a condition where sexual behaviors bec...