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Many people in relationships twist and contort themselves around their partner and forget about the things that they want. Often this happens right in the beginning of a relationship, called the merging phase. Once the merging phase ends, the things you want that are different from your partner...
Premature ejaculation, or PE, is the infamous bedroom party crasher. If you struggle with finishing too quickly, know that you aren't alone: 30% to 40% of men experience PE at some point in their lives.
A slew of things contribute to PE, from a super-sensitive penis to getting stuck in your head...
Find out in 7 easy questions if you and your partner need to book an appointment with sex therapist.
It's difficult to know when it's become time to see an expert for advice in your relationship. Romantic relationships naturally go through up and downs and it's just plain hard to stay...
I hear it quite a bit in my practice, “He is really nice, I like talking to him, but I don’t want to fuck him.” How do you find the balance between being a nice person, and being a fuckable person; how do you cross the bridge from being someone women are not interested in...
I very much enjoyed your article, 10 Things Sexually Connected Couples Do. My biggest question is around emotional intimacy in long term relationships. What role does emotion have in long-term sexual satisfaction? Can emotional closeness be a part of...
Seven years ago, I was driving across the Golden Gate Bridge when I picked up a call from one of my best friend’s Nikita. She proposed we start a blog around sexuality. For years, she had been encouraging me to write more but I had a block. Would people like what I had to say? Would my...
In times like these, with changes that the global pandemic brings, even great couples can be put to the test. Little did we know that when we joked with our partners about being our ‘ride or die,’ we would actually have to prove it!
So…how is your ‘ride or die’...
There’s so much pressure on all of us to be amazing lovers in bed. Movies show us impeccably made up actors falling gracefully into bed. Fitting together easily and climaxing simultaneously – all without even smudging their mascara.
Magazines tell us over and over again how to wow him...
Listen to me chat with Chris Sawyer from Mind Body Radio about sexual healing and my current inspirations.
It is becoming an ever increasing question in my office, “Am I a sex addict?” Often, this question comings from folks who simply like masturbating, enjoy viewing porn and want sex in normal (but high sex drive) way. Yet, there are some folks who have more than a high (and...
Meet me in Paris with your lover and I will help you two have one of the most memorable erotic experience of your life.
Adults enjoying “adult” sexy time with other like-minded individuals.
San Francisco -- and most of the US -- is sorely lacking in this type...
