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PREMATURE EJACULATION Part 3: Psychological Factors Oct 01, 2017

Early Ejaculation Psychological Factors

One of the biggest psychological factors you may be facing if you're struggling with early ejaculation is feeling like pleasure is not important or welcomed - especially as it relates to your body.

Many men who struggle with premature ejaculation report...

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PREMATURE EJACULATION TREATMENT Part 2: Arousal Without Anxiety Sep 24, 2017

Are ejaculating right away and or losing your erection? I want to help you learn another option ~ experience your arousal without anxiety. That is what my premature ejaculation treatment approach is all about.

Arousal Without Anxiety

My goal is to help you understand your arousal from a...

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Sex, Intimacy and Commitment: The Modern Relationship Sep 21, 2017

When a couples shows up in my office and we start exploring where things went wrong and how can they fix the issue or issues at hand, I lean into the three main facets of the modern relationship that most people have come to expect without consciously realizing it. While many times the answer for...

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PREMATURE EJACULATION TREATMENT Part 1: Basic to overcoming Early Ejaculation Control Aug 26, 2017

I want to offer you the premature ejaculation treatment plan that I have used to help countless men.

As a sex and relationship expert specializing in male sexual issues, I have witnessed first-hand the struggles and triumphs of many men who struggle with premature ejaculation (PE). After...

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When One Person Wants More Sex Than The Other Jun 28, 2017

"I want more sex then they do," is a statement that I here often. It's a common reason couples come to see me for sex coaching and it's also a conversation I have with many of my friends.

Misaligned sex drives are one of the most common struggles that couples of all ages at some point will have...

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He Sits Down on the Floor of a School for the Retarded Aug 12, 2016

A year ago, I met up with a dear friend for dinner on the East Coast. It had been a few years since we connected; he is very busy person. That year, he'd been working on a PBS documentary around intimacy, traveling the world, interviewing the Dalai Lama.

Of course, I was curious, "what...

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Premature Ejaculation and the 5 most common false beliefs Aug 09, 2016

Many men who come into my office struggle with ejaculation issues. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common concerns. There are a few false beliefs I keep hearing. I’d like to set the record straight for all those folks out there who are struggling to control ejaculation. 

Myth:...

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14 Ways Couples Stay Sexually Connected Jul 14, 2016

A waning sexual connection can be one of the toughest challenges of a long-term relationship. Yet, while it is a common issue, some couples remain sexually content or manage to maintain their chemistry. What have couples who report being sexually satisfied figured out? What are they doing...

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How the Word “Should” is Killing Your Sex Life Aug 21, 2015

You should be like this. You should do that. If you want a healthy sexy life you should try this with your partner. There are “should’s” any direction you turn these days. People, other people, who you have not met, are telling you how you should act. In graduate school, I heard...

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Fantasy vs. Reality: Which is Better? Jun 30, 2015

Fantasy and using our imaginations is a natural part of being human. We have the ability to fantasize about so many things – especially sexual things. Everyone has had a sexual fantasy. Whether it is about someone sweeping you off your feet (romantic), unexpectedly meeting a sexy stranger...

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Lasting longer - are there benefits of withholding ejaculation during orgasm? Jun 30, 2015

Are there any benefits from lasting longer or withholding ejaculation?

 

Someone recently wrote in a question:

 

What are your thoughts on male orgasm and eastern/tantric practices which advise against physical orgasm (but might be favorable towards energetic orgasm)? I’m curious...

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Body Acceptance : Is the World Rejecting Your Body or are You? Apr 20, 2015

Body Acceptance : Is the World Rejecting Your Body or are You?

Everyone has one, that is, a body that we walk around in everyday. Our bodies can give us immense pleasure and joy, and take us places – literally and metaphorically. One of my favorite things to explore with clients in session...

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