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It is becoming an ever increasing question in my office, “Am I a sex addict?” Often, this question comings from folks who simply like masturbating, enjoy viewing porn and want sex in normal (but high sex drive) way. Yet, there are some folks who have more than a high (and...
Meet me in Paris with your lover and I will help you two have one of the most memorable erotic experience of your life.
Adults enjoying “adult” sexy time with other like-minded individuals.
San Francisco -- and most of the US -- is sorely lacking in this type...
Going to a sex club for the first time can be exciting, as well as nerve-wracking. Seeing people live (and not on-screen) delighting in the pleasures of the flesh can be hard to fully prepare for. When I first started exploring the sex club/swinging world years ago, I definitely remember feeling...
Have you ever searched “premature ejaculation treatment” on the web? If so, you would come across a wide array of information. Spanning from medications, creams, techniques, and exercises.
Premature Ejaculation = PE

There are many medical treatment...
It’s happened to all of us at some point.
Day in, day out, you’re living a nice, predictable life with all your ducks in a row. Then, life throws you a curveball that changes everything, including your sex life.
In 2017, I fell off a horse and broke my leg (Click here for all...
When I hit the ground, I thought “No, this is not happening.”
In my years of riding, I have fallen off more horses than I can count.
I’ve been rolled on, stepped on, thrown into fences, trees - you name it.
Almost every situation you can imagine to go wrong in horse riding, I...
BY SUGAR
August 5th, 2010
The folks who show up in my office often feel like they are somehow unfit for love. They don't fit the physical mold of what society has deemed presentable, lovable, worthy of love.
Yet, somewhere inside them lives the part that desperately wants there to be a...
There is one question I want to know in the first session with a new client, "What makes you difficult to be in relationship with?" This question helps me better understand many things about how this clients relationship experiences are unfolding.
How self- reflective and introspective are...
At the beginning of last year, I had a brilliant idea:
I want to create an online video course for clients who struggle with premature ejaculation.
After all, I’ve received calls from men all over the world who felt they were doomed to a life of “early release.” They tried it...
These days, so much emphasis is paid to porn videos....but have you thought about erotic graphic novels?
My guess would be no because many folks have not.
What I love about this type of erotica, is you can enjoy the turn on with your eyes in a very different way then a video. You are still...