Going to a sex club for the first time can be exciting, as well as nerve-wracking. Seeing people live (and not on-screen) delighting in the pleasures of the flesh can be hard to fully prepare for. When I first started exploring the sex club/swinging world years ago, I definitely remember feeling...
It’s happened to all of us at some point.
Day in, day out, you’re living a nice, predictable life with all your ducks in a row. Then, life throws you a curveball that changes everything, including your sex life.
In 2017, I fell off a horse and broke my leg (Click here for all...
When I hit the ground, I thought “No, this is not happening.”
In my years of riding, I have fallen off more horses than I can count.
I’ve been rolled on, stepped on, thrown into fences, trees - you name it.
Almost every situation you can imagine to go wrong in horse riding, I...
August 5th, 2010
The folks who show up in my office often feel like they are somehow unfit for love. They don't fit the physical mold of what society has deemed presentable, lovable, worthy of love.
Yet, somewhere inside them lives the part that desperately wants there to be a...
There is one question I want to know in the first session with a new client, "What makes you difficult to be in relationship with?" This question helps me better understand many things about how this clients relationship experiences are unfolding.
How self- reflective and introspective are...
At the beginning of last year, I had a brilliant idea:
After all, I’ve received calls from men all over the world who felt they were doomed to a life of “early release.” They tried it...
These days, so much emphasis is paid to porn videos....but have you thought about erotic graphic novels?
My guess would be no because many folks have not.
What I love about this type of erotica, is you can enjoy the turn on with your eyes in a very different way then a video. You are still...
I’ve been thinking a lot about sex clubs lately.
You know, adults enjoying “adult” time with other like-minded individuals.
Unfortunately, San Francisco -- and most of the US -- is sorely lacking in this type of entertainment…but Paris? Ooh la la!
The City of Lights,...
“I thought I could describe a state; make a map of sorrow. Sorrow, however, turns out to be not a state but a process.”
~ C.S. Lewis, Irish author and poet~
“The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn...
In my practice, I talk often with clients on the topic of dating - especially online dating. I’ve had the pleasure to see so many new relationships bud and people fall madly in love. I have also seen dating go all wrong. Needless to say, we never know when our person will show up, but...
We have come to be danced
not the pretty dance
not the pretty pretty, pick me, pick me dance
but the claw our way back into the belly
of the sacred, sensual animal dance
the unhinged, unplugged, cat is out of its box dance
the holding the precious moment in the palms
of our hands and feet dance